I am so grateful to God for the kind of people he brings my way, i
just had a chat with a married man who can to my office to buy a system
as a present for the wife and he said these exact words to me, I was so
blessed.
He said
"Marriage has a way of terming a man,
sometimes you need to play fool with your wife if you must have a
successful marriage, marriage is not a place to flex authorities with
your wife, your headship does not mean tyranny, women like surprises,
when you get married, surprise your wife with a gift from time to time no matter how small".